If you’re above the age of 25, chances are that you have noticed that many of your friends have drifted apart. The binding forces such as college, same neighbourhoods or work have been left behind and you all are struggling to keep up with life. Here are some simple and easy ways to maintain adult friendships.
Are Adult Friendships Important?
Yes! In every way I can think of, it is necessary to have friends. Kindred spirits who make life’s journey bearable. Many times, due to the challenging nature of adulthood (raising a family, pursuing a career and dealing with all of life’s issues) friends lose touch with their tribe. The great thing about true friendship is that it never dies. Use these friendship tips to reconnect with your friends.
Best Tips To Maintain Friendships As Adults
Making new friends can be very daunting. If you want to grow your friendships and be in contact with your nearest and dearest, you will have to make an effort. Luckily, in this digital age, it’s simpler than ever to keep in touch. Here are some easy friendship tips that work.
Set A Reminder To Call:
Have you ever caught yourself thinking of someone repeatedly and making a mental note to call? If you’re anything like me, you always end up forgetting. Nowadays, when I think of someone, I send a quick checkup text or call for a few minutes. If I’m too busy at the time, I set a reminder on my phone to call the person.
Send Gifts:
Everyone loves getting gifts. I’m talking about random, unsolicited gifts. It doesn’t have to be pricey. Sending gifts to friends when it’s not their birthday or Christmas is a great way to remind them that they are in your thoughts.
Plan Outings:
Most people will love to see their friends but they are too busy to plan a get-together. However, if an event is planned, they can schedule time to attend. There are many things that people can share in person, and finding time to see your friends will help you know what’s happening in their life. It is also a perfect time to share favourite memories, inside jokes and words of encouragement.
It is widely believed that if you have people you have been friends with for over seven years, you all can be friends forever. Whilst this is majorly true, you will notice as you get older that you need to work to maintain your relationships so that they can continue to blossom. What do you think about adult friendships? Which of these friendship tips will you use? Kindly let me know in the comments below.
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